Good morning, Team! It’s Good Friday!!
National Institute of Health Director of Allergies and Infectious Diseases, Dr. Anthony Fauci
Marriott CEO Arne Sorenson
Good morning, Team! It’s Good Friday!!
National Institute of Health Director of Allergies and Infectious Diseases, Dr. Anthony Fauci
Marriott CEO Arne Sorenson
Good morning, Team! It’s Friday!
…the last Friday of the month and the second in my new series at a different cadence.
What is a leader? What names do we assign and how does it make us feel when we hear it? When it’s directed at us or someone else?
The label I chose for this month is Captain. Who wouldn’t think of a ship, at the helm, traditional wooden steering wheel or the seat with a large window/screen where James T Kirk sat?
The figure I want to focus on today is Ernest Shackleton. He was a famous explorer who participated in three expeditions but led his last one to Antarctica. His ship froze in the sea of ice and could have resulted in tragedy. Instead, Shackleton, like any great leader, focused on the people. In the face of adversity, anxiety, horrific weather and the fear of impending death, he kept his calm, brought with him and kept close the most caustic personalities to keep them in check and returned to his stranded men to return all safely home.
I don’t know whether he controlled the rudder of his ship at all times, but I know he was the Captain of that expedition.
How do you see yourself as a leader? Are you focused on the competition or the competitors within your organization? Is your responsibility to influence your people and develop other leaders eclipsed by your personal desire to win at all costs?
Shackleton wasn’t always heralded for his achievements. On the surface he looked like a failure. Fortunately, leadership scholars took a closer look at what he did accomplish. Today, in an evolved way of thinking, we no longer tolerate the aspirations of a few to drive behavior at any cost. We expect leadership to prioritize safety first, people second, the mission of the organization and serving clients next and to generate a market-leading profit margin as well.
These are all achievable. Its easy to get the order mixed up if you allow it. Stay focused.
Have a blessed month!
Keep your eyes on the horizon.
Good morning, Team! It’s Friday!!
Before I start, I promised something different in 2020. This is what I’m offering:
•A different cadence – once, monthly
•A keen focus on leadership
•A renewed commitment to share lessons revealed and learned
Now,
Over the past month, I’ve paid particular attention to interactions with multiple examples of the leadership role titled Coach.
I typically spend a day and an hour with my executive coach, had a beer with my old presentation coach, and was asked to be a career development coach by a colleague.
I had breakfast with a long time friend and spiritual coach who started a church (after denying his technical career aspirations). I’m welcomed to a men’s bible study when my schedule allows and the spirit moves me to be coached by a group.
I’ve seen a number of sports related coaches interviewed recently as we mourn the loss of a premier athlete and prepare to celebrate the football extravaganza this weekend. It is their job to help promising and professional athletes reach their athletic potential.
During the last month, I spoke with a wide array of individuals who could benefit from a coaching relationship, if they were aware … and willing to seek their potential and impact the quality of their life.
There are numerous types of coaches, depending on what you seek. It is critical to recognize that we all need one, at least one. In my case, many. Friend, mentor, brother…pastor, chair, supervisor…father, servant, teacher.
They require trust to create a relationship.
They require vulnerability to assess your appetite.
They require cooperation to develop momentum.
They require commitment to dig deep and not quit when it gets hard, and it will.
They require communication as they are not mind readers.
They require active listening on your part to take guidance to heart.
There is not one coach in my life as you can see. I’ve leaned on several brilliant, persistent, and caring people on my journey. We all need the trusted advisor to get us through tough situations that allow us to grow and heal and learn…and eventually teach.
A few guidance statements that I’ve heard, processed and conveyed include:
•Inquiry versus advocacy
•Assume noble intent
•What we don’t transform, we transmit
Find your coaches. Mine the nuggets of wisdom. Practice until permanent then go model the way.
Have a blessed month!
Getting to know someone beyond name, rank, serial number usually takes time. But what if you don’t have time?
Good morning, Team! It’s Friday!
It was 30 years ago today, the day after Thanksgiving, 1989 that I started a job I thought would be my last career move. Today, it would be challenging to find a place that would start you on a Friday, especially the day after Thanksgiving.
My attitude of gratitude post today is not about all of the awesome things I’ve been blessed with, up to and including; beautiful family, good health, great friends, and rewarding jobs. Instead, I’d like to share the inflections in my life that I didn’t expect, at the time felt I didn’t “deserve” and where I am today. I’ll stick to the big ones.
Job: After 25+ years in a company I gave heart and soul to, the Board representatives said they “wanted to go a different direction”. It has taken me years to forgive them and myself for the change in my career trajectory. I’m in a better place today and truly thankful for the interesting journey I would not have experienced otherwise. I’ve been given the opportunity to meet hundreds of new people and influence Boards, Divisions and Market Sectors as I expanded my view of the world.
Marriage: After 33+ years with the mother of my children, we reached a point where we couldn’t see eye-to-eye … on much of anything. We tried and tried and tried but couldn’t make it work. It was (and still is) painful and we will be healing for quite some time to come. It was a wake up call for me to what matters most in life. We all deserve to experience joy. We all deserve to be loved.
Health: It is nothing short of amazing how stress erodes health. In one of my last jobs, the CFO of one of the business lines retired and came back to work. In a conversation over a beer with several of us, Duane shared that he dropped all medicines when he retired the first time and felt great. Two months back in the saddle and he was back on the meds he was able to drop. My physical exams would tell a similar story. I have completed an annual checkup for the last 10 years, many at the Mayo clinic and have some interesting data; cholesterol levels, blood pressure, anxiety were all considerably elevated when I was in a high stress job. Conversely, during the breaks, my numbers were stellar. It is entirely possible that I took each of my roles too seriously and might have blown a gasket if I’d stayed in them. Your life looks a whole lot different when you don’t have good health.
Today, I am grateful for all of the adversity I have faced. It sucked going through it and I am not going to claim that I was well behaved when things didn’t go the way I had planned. I complained, I gnashed my teeth and I let the world know I didn’t think it was fair. Bad things happen to good people every single day. It can be tragic and I wouldn’t wish ill on anyone. Perhaps, as one close advisor shared, these are tests of faith. Adversity has lessons to teach us, if we can see beyond ourselves.
Have a blessed weekend!
Good morning, Team! It’s Friday!